Thursday, December 20, 2012

Making Wishes


 
The year of 2012 brought the Pressons a precious gift. A wish was granted to me that I made many years ago. As a young girl, I often dreamed of my handsome husband, and my home full of dark-headed little girls with big, pink, hair bows. However, the Lord chose to fill my home with wonderful, rowdy boys. Yet, the wish of my dark-headed girl was never far away. As always, the Lord heard my prayers and granted Clark and me with the desire of our hearts. Isabella visited our home for the first time in January of this year. When I heard she was coming, I went to the store and bought my first doll. I stood in the baby doll aisle at Target and cried, much to Riley's dismay. It wasn't long until she was in our home permanently as our foster child.

Our boy-filled world took an about-face. Our girl is certainly “all-girl.” She loves all things pink, sparkly, frilly, and the more shoes the better! She is a shopper just like her Mama. The two of us have no problem shopping for hours and hours, and exclaiming over the beautiful items that we find. She is all about rainbows, unicorns, and coloring books. I have learned many things this past year. I learned that a tiara must be worn when having an afternoon snack. I learned that a new pink rug in a girl's room must be danced on with your Daddy. (For those of you that know Clark, YES, he did dance on that pink rug) Hair bows must be worn at all times, even if it is just to go outside and play football with your big brothers. And new, shiny lip gloss can cause all kinds of excitement. Not all of our days have been filled with lace and bliss. Transition can be hard, and when both of the females in the home like to have control...watch out! But with the Lord's help, we are learning the zillion little differences between raising boys and raising our girl.

One morning, Isabella called me to the window in her very pink bedroom. “Mama, Mama. Look, our yard is full of wishes!” I looked and saw a yard in need of mowing, full of dandelions that had gone to seed. Our yard was dotted with hundreds of stems of white fluff just waiting to be blown off by a girl with a wish. A yard full of wishes. We went outside and blew as many dandelions and made as many wishes that we could think of. Later, she quietly said, “Mama, do you know what I REALLY wish? I wish that when I was a little baby, I could have been your baby.” I tried to explain that the Lord had other plans, and she is our forever girl now. Wishes are quiet little things that seep into our minds and have a way of burying into our hearts. That is exactly what Isabella has done. She has buried herself deep into our hearts.
Today, we go before the judge and sign our papers to officially make her our forever girl,
Isabella Hope Presson.

Once again, the Lord has proven to me that wishes really do come true!
 

Delight thyself also in the LORD; and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart.

Psalms 37:4

 

Monday, November 5, 2012

Election Day 2012

Tomorrow is Election Day.  Just thought I would share a post from a couple of years ago that shares a memory from several years ago...Love all of my political Presson men.  Click the link below.

http://pressonponderings.blogspot.com/2011/01/it-is-official-i-am-mom-of-teenager_17.html

Please get out and VOTE!

Friday, October 26, 2012

Shortest Blog Ever

I know, I haven't written a blog in over two months.  I finally get around to it, and it is going to be a shorty.  I made 2 of 3 boys watch Mirror, Mirror tonight.  It is a modern version of Snow White.  Believe me, Ladybug and I watch PLENTY of boy entertainment.  Just had to share a funny of Landry's...  The kind King's wife died in childbirth.  He decides Snow White needs a ladylike influence in her life and asks a new queen (sadly, a wicked one) to marry him.  We are all caught up in the moment, and Landry blurts out - "THAT IS ADULTERY!  PURE ADULTERY!"  Riley's response, "Landry, you have NO CLUE what adultery is!"  The end of our peaceful movie time.  Later in the movie, the wicked queen orders her minion to murder Snow White.  Again, Landry interjects, "THIS WOMAN HAS BROKEN EVERY ONE OF THE TEN COMMANDMENTS!"  Love my boy! lol. Never know what movie time is going to turn in to around here! 

Thursday, August 30, 2012

The Great Drawer Clean-out.

I will rest well tonight.  My house is CLEAN.  sweet sigh.  I am a much happier person when I am living in a sparkly, clean home.  I have my mom to thank for it.  I gracefully slipped in the kitchen this past weekend, and...there went my already achy back.  I am on the recuperation wagon, again.  Ladybug had a visit from two caseworkers today, so the house needed some dustin', sweepin', shinin' and scrubbin'.  Mom to the rescue.  She also took home a weeks worth of school uniforms for four Presson kiddos that needed to be washed and/or ironed.  THANK YOU, MOM!
 
I also enjoy an ORGANIZED home.  I have been doing a few things to try to get a bit closer to my goal of better organization.  I have labeled my pantry shelves! (patting myself on the back)  This really helps making 4 lunches everyday for hungry kids.  I made a dinner plan for the month of September last week!  (again, pat on the back)  I have been getting all uniforms ready, back packs lined up, and lunches made the night before for the past 2 weeks.  So far so good.  Hoping I can keep it up for the next 38 weeks...whew. 
 
Operation Drawer Clean-out is going to commence this coming Tuesday.  It is another step towards my home organization plan.  I wish I could say that our dressers and drawers stay neat and organized all the time.  Sadly, we have several "junk drawers" right now.  Most homes have one or two.  We have a couple in each room.  I am taking baby steps in this huge undertaking.  My goal is to clean out one drawer a day.  Baby steps.  There are 55 drawers in our house, so it is going to take awhile to reach my goal.  I am sure I will find some interesting items in the boys drawers.  Landry is my little hoarder so there is no telling what I might find in his room.  Perhaps I will find a stash of cash.  It would make me even happier if I could find the mates to our many unmatched socks.

This is the only room in the house that does not need any drawer cleaning.  We have a very particular Ladybug, and she is very tidy with her pretties.
 
I ran across this Cleaning Poem on the internet and thought it was appropriate to remind myself that even though a clean house is nice, a clean HEART is the most important of all!

Dear Lord Jesus:
As I go about my housework
Let me see each job I do,
As a service for my King
And a way of loving You.

Let me wash away my judgments
Of others right or wrong,
As I wash up the dishes
Place within my heart a song.

As I clean up little fingerprints
And lots of muddy shoes,
May I remember how you cleaned the feet
Of the loved ones you did choose.

As I mend up torn pajamas
And sew a button on,
Show me where I need to mend a breech
That's gone on far too long.

Let me tidy up my thoughts
As I tidy up the toys,
Let me sweep away my fears
Like the dirt from little boys.

May I be just as quick with my forgiveness
As I am with mop and broom,
Sweeping up the clutter
In my heart and living room.

May I rinse out pride and ego
As I rinse the bathtub out,
And while we are at it Lord
Let's take care of anger, hate and doubt.

Please remind me often Lord
That the way I'm called to serve,
Is an honor given me
And not below what I deserve.

You know Lord, as I look
At all the work we need to do,
I think we'd better house clean
At least each day or two.

[ By Melanie Hubbard -- Contributed by Holly ]

Sunday, August 19, 2012

A letter to my freshman...

Dear Avery,

It was just a few sleeps ago that we were preparing for kindergarten. I was so concerned that you would lose your glasses and forget your 4 digit lunch code. Most of all, I knew my days would be empty without you.
Suddenly, it is your first day of high school...

I am so proud of the young man that you are becoming. The love that I have for you is seriously indescribable. You were the first to teach me all that I know about being a mom. You will be the first to teach me to become a mom to a highschooler. I am sure I will worry, fuss and cry. Thankfully, you are used to it, and take it all in stride.

The next four years of your life are going to bring so many changes. I know that I am not ready for them, but you are. It is going to be a time of spiritual decisions that your dad and I can no longer make for you. Your walk with God is completely in your hands.

You know me well enough to know that I loovvvee to give you advice, and I feel it is an important time for some. :)

Strive to go further in the Lord than you have ever been. If your relationship with him is on steadfast ground then every situation you face will be filtered through Him. My heart explodes when I watch you worship or walk by your room and see you kneeling in prayer. The spiritual decisions that you make in the next months and years will carry you through your adult life, so go deeper, desire more from God. He has so much for you!

Choose your friends prayerfully and wisely. They are so influential in your life during these next four years. Look for friends that desire to walk, talk, and live Godly. Surround yourself with believers. Have fun, laugh, and enjoy this time. Let it be a time of joy and confidence, not insecurity. You have been blessed with so much to be secure in.

Beware of the pitfalls that Satan has laid for young men. If you do not have a DAILY relationship with the Lord, then you will easily fall into the snares of sin. Decide in your heart now to say NO to wrong situations before they  occur. “How can a young man keep his way pure? But keeping it according to God’s word.” (Psalm 119:9) Like Job, make a covenant with your eyes. (Job 31:1)

Study hard. Do your best academically. Take pride in all of your work. One day you will be look back and be able to stand tall because of your hard work, and be ready for your next step of education. Be kind and polite to all of those around you. Please make your Mama happy and remember to use your manners with the teachers and faculty.

Although friends are important during this time, family always comes first. Although, your brothers get on your last nerve at times, they will always be your best friends. You are so sweet to your new little sister. Always be her protector. Continue to stay close to your dad. I love the relationship that the two of you have. He is a man of honor and integrity, he expects no less of you. He has a prayer life like no one else that I know, may that same hunger live in you. Always come to him for advice before others. The two of you can take any situation before the Lord. Please know that I am and always will be your biggest fan. I believe in you and want the best for you, even when I drive you crazy about chores, manners, wearing your seat belt, etc, etc...

Your dad and I do not ask for perfection. We know that mistakes happen, we have made plenty. But we do ask that you strive be your best. Where much is given, much is required. When those rocky times come, and you are seeking the Lord's will for your next step in life, always remember a promise from someone who loves your more than I am capable of...

"I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11

I love you,
Mom xoxo






Monday, July 16, 2012

Journals, boys, diet, pure randomness

I really thought my One Sentence A Day Journal was going to be successful!  However, as you can see below it has become a Paragraph A Week Journal.  Sigh.  I always begin with good intentions.  I have started online scrap booking, and I am loving it...maybe I will complete one book!  The hardest part is trying to organize my hundred trizillion pictures before I can scrap them!  I started with 2009 because those pics seemed to be a bit more organized than other years.  I would share a few completed pages, but have not figured out how to YET.  I can NOT believe how much my boys have grown and matured in the past 3 years...for example...

Spring 2009

and three short years later...

Spring 2012


Time marches on without the permission of Mamas!   They have all changed in so many ways, and yet they are still the same.  They make me laugh, cry, pull my hair out, and my heart feel like it is going to explode from loving them so much and wanting the best for each of them.  Avery is in North Carolina for the week so I am emotional...moving on...

Latest favorite Line by Landry - "Mama, I prayed for the Holy Ghost really hard at church.  I did not get the Holy Ghost, but I DID get a whole lotta Jesus!"

Latest favorite Moment with Riley -  The electricity was off while Clark was in California.  Before Riley went to bed he complimented me on what a good job I was doing of taking care of everybody without Dad being at home...in the dark...in the heat.  That boy makes my heart melt! 

Latest favorite Moment with Avery - Having a llllloooonnnngggg serious talk about the future.  Listening as he poured out his heart ... brokenness about friends and family straying from the Lord, girls that are so pretty and post Godly statuses on facebook but yet live far away, and wishing they lived closer, areas he would like to be involved in at church when he gets older.  As he talked, it was like listening to the heartbeat of Clark.  One of those moments that I thought my heart would seriously explode.  Have I mentioned Avery is in NC and I am emotional?

Latest mind-blowing statement from our ladybug -  "I have one wish.  I wish that when I was a baby, I could have been your baby."  I have no words for moments like this.  Only prayers - help me Jesus to be what I need to be to this girl that you have placed in our lives.  I can do all things through Christ which strengthens me.

A few excerpts from my no longer One Sentence A Day Journal...

May 25, 2012 – Avery slept until late in the afternoon after his week at Competition. Later both Riley and he had youth functions. Thankful that Emery has had such a wonderful week since his new heart!

May 26, 2012 – Clark put up our pool today. It is the biggest one that we have ever had. It is always our best summer investment!

May 27, 2012 - Church day! Nathan Ferguson came home with Riley and the boys swam all afternoon. We tried a new Mexican restaurant and it was delish!

May 28, 2012 – Memorial Day – Mom, Dad, Sis, Randy and all the Pressons headed to Cades Cove for a picnic. The kids had fun playing in the water, except for Avery. He is getting too mature for childish joys! Back home to swim the afternoon away! Best part of the weekend...Clark was HOME for THREE whole days!!!

May 29, 2012 – Back to 5th Grade for Riley and me. It is a struggle trying to finish up! We will get there! I am proud of him!

May 30, 2012 – Our ladybug started a new playschool today. She will be going two days a week. She was very quiet when I dropped her off. I am anxious to pick her up, and see how her day was. Happy Birthday to Dawn!

May 31, 2012 - Headed back to the doctor for a check-up on my back today, and an allergy check-up for Riley.

June 1, 2012 - 2 big boys headed to youth rally tonight. Riley forgot his epipen, so he didn't get to eat at Steak N Shake after the service. I felt so sorry for him!

June 2, 2012 – Mom, Sis & I went resaling in Knoxville. We will definitely be going again!

June 3, 2012 – ACA Graduation. TWELVE graduates! Many of them were once in my 6th grade class.

June 19, 2012 – Whew – and I thought keeping up with this was going to be easy! Spent last week helping with concessions at Strong Tower Youth Camp. It was fun, but I was so glad to be home! Landry stayed here with Aunt Lisa, Grandma, & Amy. I was so glad to see him and Clark!

July 9, 2012 – ARGH! I really thought that I could keep up with this! Quick catch up...Clark went to CA this past weekend for Rich's 40th birthday. He has a great time of lots of golfing and sightseeing. We missed him like crazy! Laura and Evan were here for a couple of weeks. Had a scary episode with her at Dollywood, but the Lord was with us! Difficult weekend with the ladybug. Praying for the Lord's will and healing in her life and mind, and HELP for me as I try to deal with it! However, she had a good day at her playschool and didn't get her name on the board. I am very happy about this!

July 16, 2012 – Avery in in North Carolina for a week with Nana & Papa. He has been so excited about this trip! I am missing him, but thankful that he is getting to spend time with them! I had a MAJOR setback with my back this week. I have been in the bed Saturday and Sunday and can tell it is slowly improving, and strength is returning to normal in my left leg again.  Mom, Dad & Sis are in IL this week spending some more time with Laura. Maybe I need to call this a Paragraph A Week Journal instead of One Sentence a Day! I made it to TWENTY POUNDS this past week, but am back up 2 after my weekend of bed rest. Sigh! Dieting is so frustrating!

GOALS for the week...keep up with my journal, get those pesky 2 pounds off, don't do anything else to reverse the improvement I have made on my back!



Thursday, May 24, 2012

My One Sentence Journal

I have always loved to journal.  My first journals start around my 6th grade year.  I continued to journal all of my thoughts, emotions, ideas, loves, and lost loves through my middle and high school years.  I journaled sporadically while in college.  Once I was married and the boyness began, journaling was a thing of the past.  Until I discovered blogging.  I was much more faithful at my journals than I am to blogging.  I have BOXES of my journals downstairs.  I go through them every now and then and LAUGH!  I recently discovered a new form of journaling in a magazine and thought I would share it with all of you that would like to try one.  It is simple and fun.  I can't wait to have several months worth to go back and look over.  It brings those little moments back that are so easily forgotten.  It is called a One Sentence Journal.  Each day you are supposed to jot down one sentence about your day, your husband, kids, etc.  I am doing mine on my computer and then going to print each page and add to a book, or you could just grab a notebook and start a one sentence a day journal right now!  It is such an easy way to capture scattered bits and pieces of life.  My biggest problem is sticking to ONE sentence!  Here is a copy of mine.  It is non-exciting every day Presson moments, but it will help you get an idea...


One Sentence A Day Journal...

May 16, 2012 – I started Advocare on Apr 30th, weighing in at *** pounds. :( So far I have lost 10 pounds :), and TODAY I started the treadmill! Proud of my accomplishments thus far!

May 17, 2012 – Clark went to work at 4:30 this morning so he could be home in time to eat supper with us and mow the grass. These constant late night hours are so hard for me. He mowed the grass and mulched until it was dark, and then worked by the porch lights. It was wonderful to have him home on a weeknight, even though he wasn't in the house!

May 18, 2012 – Avery's last day of 8th grade! Can't believe I will have a highschooler in the fall. Very emotional day! Landry & our Ladybug played in the sprinkler. She could hardly stand the fact that the ground got muddy! Landry rolled in the mud. Oh, the differences between my boys and this girlie girl! Down 12 pounds! AND Leslie found out she is having TWINS in January!!!!!!!

May 19, 2012 – Clark left for a claim this morning at 1:30 and has been gone all day. We were all desperately needing to spend some time with him this weekend. Since that didn't happen, I took the kids to the Fort Loudon “Beach”. It was fun! We will be going back this Summer!

May 20, 2012 – Another lllooonngg day with Clark back on his claim. I was glad he got to come home and sleep for a few hours. He made it to church by 6:30 tonight. The ACA students presented their Competition performances. Awesome as always.

May 21, 2012 – Emery Baker is getting a new heart today at 1:00. Thank you, Jesus, for this miracle of life! God is so good!

May 22, 2012 – Competition is happening this week, so Avery is loving being in Knoxville all day without the rest of us. Riley and I are still trying to finish up 5th grade. We got a couple of weeks behind due to my back situation and his IL trip. Everything went great with Emery. Happy Birthday to Selina!

May 23, 2012 – All the kids and I headed to Knoxville for Competition at 7:30 this morning. Avery did his Science Fair Interview. BuSy day!
May 24, 2012 – Another looonngg day of home school. It is hard when the rest of the house is off for the summer. We planned on going to the fountains at Maryville College, but they weren't on. Major sadness in the van, so we headed to Townsend to get wet in the mountain streams. 13 pounds down.

As you can see, one sentence is a bit difficult.  Just thought I'd share the memory-collecting idea!





Monday, May 14, 2012

He Holds My Seasons!

I have been thinking the past weeks on the seasons that life takes us through.  The Lord created them.  It is His will for things to change.  We love the seasons when we are on the mountain top.  However, it is the valley that I seem to remember the most.  Perhaps because that is the time in which I grow.  This past weekend we took a trip to Jackson, TN., the place where Clark was born and raised, and the town that we spent out first ten years of marriage.  I took some time to drive around.  I visited one of our past homes. I drove and wept as I thought of the seasons that our life went through in those ten years.  The ups and downs, the growth of our marriage, the births of two of our sons, the times of laughter and weeping. 

Life often takes us through seasons that we share with others.  Our pain is lessened when we can share it.  However, my season of late has been with God and me.  It is a lonely place.  I have shared it with my husband, but even then, there are times when only the Lord understands and loves us still.  There are seasons when we sing, "It's me, oh Lord, standing in the need of prayer.  Not my brother or my sister, but it's me, oh Lord..."

During this time, the Lord has drawn me yet again to one of my favorite places in His word, the book of Ruth.  Naomi and Ruth certainly went through many of life's seasons.  I've often wondered if Naomi made the correct choice in leaving Bethlehem-Judah.  I realize the search for sustenance drove her and Elimelech out.  The fear of your children starving would cause any parents to run.  However, there were many that stayed and survived.  Her decision to leave her homeland caused such a season of terrible loss in her life.  A season of loneliness that I would never want to experience.  Yet, in her heartache she was able to return home.

Naomi changed her name to Mara, which means bitter.  She was determined, that because of her loss, the hand of the Lord was against her.  During this season, her bitterness made her unable to feel the touch of God, but it had not made Him unable to touch her.  One of my very favorite parts of Naomi's life is God's timing, the season in which He directed her back to Bethlehem-Judah.  She and her family left in a season of famine, wanting, and need.  However, the Lord allowed Naomi to return during the season of barley harvest (Ruth 1:22).  Harvest season is a time of rejoicing, a time of plenty, and time of joy! 

Earlier today, I was reading an article and a sentence jumped off the page and into my heart.  It said, "Appreciate this season of life."  My first thought was, "Are you sure, Lord?"  It is hard to appreciate the tough, frustrating, and lonely seasons.  However, the Lord is quietly confirming that He will eventually change my season, just as He did Naomi's.  He began to change Naomi's life from bad to good. As we know, Ruth's season bloomed into love, and Naomi became the nurse of Obed, Ruth and Boaz's son. (Ruth 4:16) The one who called herself Bitter cared for the boy of the lineage through which the ultimate Redeemer, Jesus Christ, comes.   Naomi's story is such a beautiful reminder that His timing is perfect.  He holds our seasons in His hands! 

Thank you Lord for the miracles that you bring with the change of life's seasons. 

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Be cautious when you stop and smell the roses.

My husband is wonderful 99% of the time.  I am not allowed to blog about the 1%.  :)  One of the many reasons I love him is that he is always willing to make a quick Wal-Mart run when we are needing a few things.  He usually brings home a few extras that aren't on the list, and almost always stops by the floral area to get me a bouquet of fresh flowers.  Wouldn't trade him for anything!

This week he brought home a vibrant, cheerful bouquet filled with yellow and hot pink flowers.  They are very pretty!  He told me that he wanted something extra bright since I had been blue lately.  Sadly, my mood had been very blue, more like navy blue bordering on black.  It was a week since my surgery and I was/am VERY ready to be back to my busy self again, but so far it is not happening. 

I quickly opened my cheerful gift to get it in water and a vase.  I was assaulted by a scent as I opened the plastic wrapping.  Not a sweet flower scent, but a horrible, rank,  garbage smell.   Terrible, awful smell.  Landry immediately started complaining and asking where the stinky smell was coming from.  Keep in mind that his allergies are terrible, and he can barely smell anything - yet he could smell the flowers!  Yes, they are really that bad. 

So far, we have kept the stinky flower smell a secret from Clark.  Each morning after he leaves for work, Landry or I set them out on the back patio to get the stinkiness out of the house.  Every evening before Clark comes home,  I bring them in and set them by the kitchen window that is slightly opened to hopefully let the stench out.  I don't want Clark to think I am ungrateful, and I don't want him to stop bringing my Wal-mart beauties.  Hopefully, they will give up and wilt soon, until then they will spend their days in the fresh outdoors and their nights cozy in the house.  Maybe the Lord was trying to tell me that my attitude is not only navy blue/black but also stinky....hmmm, certainly something to think about...

Friday, April 6, 2012

Early morning rambling

Good morning.  It is 3:30 a.m.  This is a first for me.  I don't normally blog at 3:30 a.m., because sleep and I have a wonderful relationship.  However, tonight has been the most painful night since my surgery and I have not been able to sleep.  I have been walking the floors with my walker, while trying not to wake the rest of the house.  Therefore, I will post a very rambling blog.  You have been warned!

We had an unbelievably emotional roller coaster of a day.  So Clark spent a few extra minutes on our family devotions this evening.  The Word always has a way of helping us reign in our runaway thoughts.  He spoke to us about the cross, the precious blood that was poured out for my mistakes and sins.  I have such an overwhelming feeling of unworthiness when at the foot of my spiritual cross.  I pray that Calvary will always be very real to Avery, Riley, and Landry. 

Clark also took a few minutes to discuss Psalms 133:1 "Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity!"  It is ALWAYS appropriate to discuss this scripture many times a day to the three Presson brethren!  Heehee!  They seem to often need a good dose of unity!

We are looking forward to Spring Break.  I am praying that I am able to do at least one fun thing with the boys while we are out of school for the week.  They have been so patient with me during the long weeks of this back trouble, and certainly deserve something fun and exciting.  Speaking of Spring, I was checking over some of Landry's recent school work.  The directions told him to write two sentences describing the season of spring.  He wrote in his beautiful penmanship..."Spring is wonderful.  God made the trees, and they make me sneeze."  LOL!  He has certainly been sneezing!  His allergies have kept him very miserable. 

Landry has a neighbor friend that he has daily Star Wars battles with in the back yard.  Recently, Zach came inside to play, and was impressed by one of Landry's favorite toys.  In fact, he loved it so much that he playfully mentioned stealing it.  "Literal Landry" responded with, "Dude! Have you ever heard of the 10 Commandments?  Because no stealing is one of them!"  I noticed the particular toy was safely hidden under the bed the next time Zach came to play. 

He recently lost another tooth.  He worked on it several days and did not want any help getting it out.  Once it was pulled and safely in a Ziploc bag, he told me he felt he deserved an extra dollar from the "tooth fairy" for doing all of the work on his own.  I think Clark's next devotions need to cover the love of money! 

Easter blessings to all of you!  I am looking forward to celebrating the wondrous miracle of the resurrection!   

Thursday, March 8, 2012

A walker, a Science Fair, and a brand new baby.

Helloooo, bloggy friends!  So much for my New Year's Post on my WORD OF THE YEAR...consistency!  I haven't accomplished my word on my blog.  The nice part of having a word of the year is that you can pick it up again at anytime...so here I am! 

I have a couple of rrreeaaallyy good excuses on my non-consistent blogging.  One is still a secret, miracle in the making.  I can. not. stand. it. when. people. do. that. to. me.  However, it has thrown our family into a bit of a whirlwind, required mucho adjusting, and I will disclose the details as soon as I can. 

My other is that I have ruptured a disc in my spine.  It has been officially named the L5 and my neurosurgeon explained it as an extremely significant rupture.  I whole-heartedly agreed with him on the extreme part.  I did this on February 26, one day after our 17th Anniversary.  I woke up Sunday morning to begin our Get Ready to Go to Church Marathon, bent over to pick a book off of the floor...and BAM, WHAMO, WHITE-HOT KNIFE IN THE BACK - PAIN!  The kind that makes you instantly break out in a sweat and the cold chills at the same time.  I screamed (you might have heard me)  CLAAARRRKKK!  I have never seen that man wake up so fast on a Sunday morning.  I also woke the rest of the house.  I can laugh now, I was not laughing then.  I also managed to damage a nerve down my entire right leg.  My foot instantly twisted out to the right so that when my feet were placed together they formed an L shape (L is for Lisa, Lance, Laura & LaTrisa - couldn't resist), and my right foot and leg went totally numb, but yet was still able to feel pain down to the tips of my numb toes.  I have birthed three boys.  I can not recall crying one tear during any moment of labor.  However, I think I cried all day long on Sunday.  The pain was beyond intense.  Clark took me to the ER where they quickly started an IV to get the pain meds in, but they honestly didn't help much.  I kept asking for more.  My nurse was very willing and giving.  He probably kept giving me more pain meds in hopes of stopping the tears.  After Xrays, an MRI, and about 4 bottles of medicine picked up at the pharmacy, I got to come home. 

I became very good friends with my walker.  I am not ashamed of it, well, maybe a little!  But it comes in so handy!  I have made much progress.  The first few days the pain was incredibly intense.  My foot has finally started to straighten out, and I have 2 toes that are not numb and half of my leg is no longer numb.  If I have to sit up straight too long, I begin to get what I call "wooden leg" and the leg decides that it is not going to cooperate with me, and then I have to drag it along for awhile.  I am still having muscle spasms in my leg and hip, and the nerve seems to quiver and ache when I have been on it too long.

Due to the fact that I am unable to sit straight up, and do not have much power over my leg, I have not been able to drive.  I decided to try today while my mom was in the car with me.  My leg does not have the strength to hold itself up to the gas pedal, and will not listen to me when I tell it to press on the brake.  I never made it out of the garage.  I begin physical therapy on Monday.  I am nervous about this.  I am a wimp and fearful of more pain.  But hopeful it will help me to regain complete mobility.  I return to a new neurosurgeon at the end of the month, and please help me pray that I will not need to have surgery.

I must tell you that my MOM has been amazing during these past two weeks.  She has taken the most excellent care of me and my family.  She has done it all.  Helped me hobble around, cooked, cleaned every nook and cranny of this house, bought groceries, washed laundry (we have an unbelievable amount of laundry), picked kids up from school everyday, taken Riley for shots, ironed, and ironed and the list goes on and on and on!  We have kept her busy!  I do not know what we would have done without her.  I LOVE YOU, MOM, and appreciate ALL that you have done!

On a lighter, non-complaining note...I had another great-nephew born this week.  He is beautiful.  If my back wasn't so bad, I might try to steal him away from Amy.  There is nothing sweeter than a new born!  I am so happy that Andrew Michael Gomez is safely here!

AND (this is for the grandmas and aunts and cousins that read my blog mainly to hear how the boys are doing  :)...), Avery won 2nd place in the Science Fair tonight.  I am super proud of him!  Riley is doing great - aced another Math Test this week.  Landry has read the entire book of Matthew since the beginning of the year and is starting on Mark.  Love those boys of mine!

Thank you to the many of you that have been praying for me!  I am amazed by the love that you all have shown me with your comments!

Friday, February 3, 2012


Happy Friday!  Whoohoo!  We are excited to attend a wedding this weekend.  A wedding in February - how romantic.  I also had a wedding in February...almost 17 years ago.  UNBELIEVABLE!  Still love my handsome, hard working husband! ANYWAY...I forgot to link Brittany's 3rd Thyroid Post.  I know several of you are following it.  Here is the link.

 http://thenpmom.wordpress.com/2012/01/12/im-running-and-i-cant-stop-hyperthyroidism/

She has posted a couple of new articles on different topics that are very interesting so take a few minuted to browse.  Have a wonderful weekend!

Thursday, February 2, 2012

"Ain't God good to give us so many blessings, undeserving, that's what we are!"



Due to a bit of Presson home renovation, all three boys are in one room for the next week or two.  I am amazed how wonderful they are getting along.  However, the mixture of the 14 year old's Xbox chaos, the 11 year old's million piece lego collection, and the 7 year old's world of all things batman is currently one huge jumbled mess.  I could not take it any longer, and had to do some cleaning this afternoon.  I noticed Avery's bed had been "made" according to my standard of bed making.  Although, Avery does not try to improve on his bed making skills, he does lllooovveee a fresh, clean bed with crisp, tight sheets made by his mom.  In the midst of my room clean-up I decided to freshen and change his bed.

I took a few extra minutes to do this, only because I know how much he enjoys it.  I love to hear that groan of contentment as he sinks into his bed, and hear the shout from across the house, "THANKS, MOM!"  While I was working on tucking in the clean sheets and finding the fresh blankets, I thought to myself that he really does not deserve this tonight.  He informed me an hour or so ago that he needed a calculator, graph paper, compass, and protractor before school in the morning.  I had bought all of these items at the beginning of the school year, but he has misplaced them.  I was not looking forward to going to the store tonight.  Clark is in Kentucky so won't be able to make a Wal-Mart stop.  So it is Mom to the rescue.  Sigh.  and double sigh. 

Back to the bed making thought.  As I was thinking of the undeserved clean bedding, the Lord reminded me of the many times I have been undeserving of His many blessings.  I have felt His blessings rain down on me when I was most unworthy. 
His mercy in the midst of my sin. 
His comfort in the midst of my confusion.
 His peace in the midst of my trial.  
I have never been and never will be deserving.  He does it all for me because of LOVE!

I took a little extra care to tuck everything nice and tight, just like Avery likes it.  Whether he deserves it or not, I love my scatterbrained teen more than life itself.  I also took a few minutes to thank the Lord for my undeserved blessings that he has given me this very day.  A short time later, I found an extra compass, protractor, graph paper, and calculator.  I will not be making a late night Wal-Mart run.  That is one BIG, undeserved blessing that makes this tired mom feel very humbled and happy!

Monday, January 16, 2012

Part 2 of Brittany's Thyroid Info

Here is Part 2 of Brittany's Thyroid Info.  Again, very informative!  Thank you, Brittany for all of the great info!  Keep if coming!

Click on this link...
http://thenpmom.wordpress.com/2012/01/10/are-you-exhausted-and-feeling-fat-could-it-be-hypothyroidism/

Hope everyone has a wonderful week!  We did not get a day off at the Presson School of Higher Learning.  (my niece gave us this name :))  We had mucho sickness at the beginning of the month and are trying to play catch-up.  I found out that Landry is allergic to bananas, alas that is another blog for another day...

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

There is a little tiny organ in your body that is oh so important.  It is called the thyroid.  Most of you know that I don't have one due to having thyroid cancer.  Although the cancer is gone (thank you, Jesus!) the symptoms are something that I fight with on a daily basis.  I once read a quote about thyroid cancer and it is true for me..."Thyroid cancer doesn't always affect the quantity of your life, but it certainly affects the quality."  If you know anything about the thyroid then you know that could preach!!  I have a wonderful nurse practitioner friend that I went to college with.  She has an equally wonderful blog that is packed full of incredible information about the body!  The link below will take you to her first post on the thyroid.  There is more coming this week that I will share.  Happy Wednesday to all, and may your thyroid stay healthy!  :)

http://thenpmom.wordpress.com/2012/01/08/your-thyroid-what-is-so-important-about-it/

Thank you, Brittany for sharing your super duper intellect with us! 

Sunday, January 8, 2012

Happy New Year 2012!

Hooray!  Tomorrow is January 1st!  Well, at least it is MY January 1st.  Due to sickness and other family situations we are just now beginning our "new year changes."  ANNDD, I am ready for them!  I must admit that I have not written down a list of "resolutions," although I have many swirling and twirling around in my thought patterns.  However, I love the idea of choosing a word for the year. 

The idea behind a word of the year is to stay focused on it on a daily basis and let it flavor your entire year.  There are so many beautiful, creative, inspiring and even fun words to choose from. Resplendent, grace, thankful, serene, tranquil, and so on.  How pleasant would it be to think on and attempt "serene" each and every day in the midst of my boy-filled world.  It makes me feel mellow just thinking about it. 

However, I tried to focus on the improvements that needed to take place in my life.  I thought back on the challenges of the past year and how the outcome would have been if I had reacted differently.  I concentrated on the desire of getting from point A to point B.  I came up with a very boring, unromantic, non-exciting word.  Yet, it challenged me. 

CONSISTENCY - [kuhn-sis-tuhn-see]  steadfast adherence to the same principles, course, form, etc.: ex. There is consistency in his pattern of behavior.

A spirit of steadfastness!  That is exactly what I am expecting of myself in 2012!  Begin the POSITIVE in all areas of my life...and just keep doing it day after day after day after day.  Not too difficult when you think about it!  Consistency in the improvement of changes that I can make for my health, consistency in keeping my family on a schedule that will keep the happy level up and the stress level down, and keeping the same course in tending to my home. Keeping on a steady course in my spiritual walk and ministry responsibilities is certainly on the top of my consistency list.  I will encourage my children to embrace consistency!  Maybe I will even blog with a bit more consistency!  Many times I start the New Year out with a BaNg and about mid February I run out of steam!  I am hoping my word for the year will inspire me to continue on in my well doing.

Perhaps my word for 2013 will be a lovely word such as quiescent, which means peaceful.  Good thing I have a whole year to attempt that one!  Prayers and good wishes to all of you that want to make YOU a better servant for HIS work and will!